DEAR DEIDRE: Being on OnlyFans is keeping me from sleeping and draining me financially – but I don’t want to leave.
I feel connected to a woman there and feel guilty if I don’t talk to her when she asks. Am I being manipulated?
I am a 32 year old single man. I joined OnlyFans a few weeks ago.
I really liked it at first. It was exciting to talk to women there and I felt less lonely.
One particular woman looked at me and told me I was special.
I felt like I had made a real friend.
But now I find myself talking to her all night long – and it’s costing me a fortune.
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I feel rude when I say I have to go, and she says she doesn’t want me to leave.
When she texts and I don’t answer, she says, “Don’t you want to be with me?” and guilt makes me talk.
Money is tight, and I can’t afford this. I’m exhausted too.
What should I do?
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DEIDRE SAYS: You have no reason to feel rude or guilty.
I’m sorry to say, but this woman is manipulating you for money. She doesn’t love you, she loves your money.
It is very important that you try to get rid of OnlyFans otherwise you will end up in debt.
Delete your account and don’t feel bad. My support package Understanding Debt can help.
If you’re feeling lonely, read my support pack on widening your social circle for tips on making real friendships.
